36 Things I Learned in 36 Years

As I prepare to turn another year older in a mere 24 hours, I spent some time reflecting on the life lessons I have learned along the way. While a few of them might seem obvious, some took me a while to absorb (especially when it came to friendships as an adult). Over this past year, I learned more about myself, as I became an entrepreneur, mourned a loved one, continued with an old hobby, lost friendships, learned to trust myself more, and found clients who have become friends. 

While this is by no means an exhaustive list (and I didn’t want to write a lengthy blog post about each of the items on this list), I hope it inspires you on your respective journey at whatever stage of life you’re in. 

1. Friendships change over time—it’s a fact of life! 
2. You’re never too old to start something new (or return to a hobby)
3. Don’t wait to do something you love or pursue a passion
4. You won’t ever feel ready to start, but do it anyway
5. Always bet on yourself…and trust your gut! 
6. Sometimes, if you don’t make a decision, the Universe will make one for you 
7. Travel often 
8. Tell your friends and family what they mean to you
9. Have an outlet
10. Get comfortable in your own skin
11. Don’t be afraid of being too much or too little—just be yourself 
12. Be vulnerable 
13. Always believe that you’ll find a way 
14. Find friends who are like family 
15. Be part of communities 
16. Invest in yourself
17. Believe that the next best thing is one connection away 
18. Network…network…network 
19. Surround yourself with people who shout your name in a crowded room
20. Work on your mindset
21. Make time for self-care…often! 
22. Spend time in nature
23. Learn to be alone 
24. Don’t fear failure—it’s never having tried that should scare you
25. Nurture your health 
26. Become your own advocate 
27. Show up for people who show up for you
28. Step out of your comfort zone 
29. Invest in a good skincare routine (you’ll thank me later)
30. Ditch the hustle culture and societal benchmarks 
31. Know when something isn’t for you 
32. Say what you mean and mean what you say 
33. Treat yourself (you’ll also thank me later on this one!)
34. Get your beauty rest
35. Set boundaries
36. Enjoy every moment!

Have I missed anything? Share your thoughts in the comments!

*Photo via Diana Davis Creative