Preparing for Another Trip Around the Sun 

My birthday is in T-minus one day, and if you are a regular reader around here, you likely know that I make a big deal out of my birthday…every year. This year, I will be celebrating turning another year older in the Cayman Islands (provided the predicted hurricane that’s forming changes its track). And while I’ve spent the week getting reading work-wise, I’ve also been mentally preparing for how I would like to mark another trip around the sun. 

Last year was the first time I ever had a sense of dread around my birthday. There was something palpable that I felt about turning 37, and it hit me like a ton of bricks (and, yes, I know 37 isn’t old). It wasn’t the idea of getting older that bothered me, but rather where I was in life that seemed to do me in. Instead of focusing on where I was at that moment—still grieving the loss of my grandmother and a recent entrepreneur—I focused on where I wasn’t and failed to give myself grace during that period. 

Now, with another year under my belt, I have added wisdom and a new perspective that I didn’t have this time last year. I’m not concerned about turning 38. Instead, I’m honored that I get to be another year older and pursue all the things I love, like building my business, continuing my equestrian endeavors, and working on something exciting for caregivers. This past year allowed me to be a Care Fellow with Caring Across Generations, a moderator on a wellness panel for James Lane Post, and an attendee at events where I met interesting people who encouraged and inspired me on my journey. 

As I step into this next chapter, I’m leaving behind the doubts and ‘what ifs’ of last year. Instead, I’m embracing each day with gratitude and a sense of purpose, ready to keep building, learning, and enjoying the beautiful journey ahead.

Cheers to 38—and to every lesson, adventure, and opportunity it holds!